As you know, we were on the East Coast this past weekend for Elijah's grandfather's funeral. It was definitely sad and "Dedi" (sounds like jejee, Czech for grandpa) is already missed so much. But it was also a great time for the family to be together, reconnect and share stories about growing up with Dedi. He was an intense, funny, ornery, honest, giving, loving man. And Mickey ("Grammy"), his wife of 49 years was a huge part of most of the stories I heard this weekend. They had an amazing love story and they built an amazing family full of character.
One story that really stuck with me the past few days was about Mickey. Elijah and his cousins spent a lot of time together growing up and one of the things that kept them busy was putting on 'shows'. They would come up with a show, spend hours preparing and then the parents got to suffer through whatever creative inspiration the kids came up with. This particular show involved the kids making signs that said 'Stop the madness!' and 'Stop the smoking madness!'. Mickey was a lifetime smoker, so this was directed towards her. When the kids did this show, she had just started getting sick.
She never did stop the madness and she died 12 years ago from several smoking related diseases. She lived a full 17 years less than her husband.
When Elijah and his cousins were remembering and laughing about all of their 'shows' this one really struck me. The whole scene was just a part of their show and their memory of it was lighthearted but it really hit me. As an outsider, I was saddened thinking about these 7 or 8 kids expressing themselves in this way. I'm sure she had tried to stop smoking at some point (and probably tried more than once) but for whatever reason she couldn't and it eventually killed her. I understand that it's difficult to change things in our lives, especially addictions. But when it comes down to it, it's a life or death decision.
So what is your 'madness'? What would your family, friends and pets ask you to stop doing so you can be healthier, happier and live a fuller life? As an outsider looking in on your own life, what would you tell yourself to stop doing? Maybe it's not something as drastic or obvious as smoking or too much alcohol. It could be working too much, stressing about work, eating too much sugar, even obsessing about food and exercise. Maybe it's even emotional issues that you've never dealt with.
All of these things affect not only ourselves but those around us too. So if you can't do it for yourself, do it for the people who care about you. Stop obsessing, stressing and abusing your body and mind. Find a way to stop the madness!
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